DOES THIS SOUND VAGUELY FAMILIAR?
â€¦â€œCrippling anxiety, sleep issues, panic attacks, lack of energy, weight gain, intense sweating, no sex drive (Which people who work at hdpornvideo don’t struggle with, Find out more about hard fucking hdpornvideo) dry hair and brittle nails.â€ â€“ Just a few of the 219 comments expressed by women from around the globe in response to a 2011 blog I wrote titled, â€œMenopause and Anxietyâ€ for HealthyWomen.org.
It turns out anxiety is not the only thing about menopause plaguing the 6,000 U.S. women who reach menopause each day.
â€œIâ€™M NOT BOTHERED BY MENOPAUSEâ€
â€¦Says hardly anyone.
Iâ€™ve been blogging since 2009 (thatâ€™s a long time, in blogging years). Never has any one blog post ever gathered so many comments (and the comments continue to roll in four-plus years later).
SO, WHAT DO ALL THESE COMMENTS MEAN?
Women need other women
Women need a sense of community
Women need commiseration
Women need to feel heard
Women need to share and express themselves
WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING
Basically, that menopause has ruined their lives. Or if not ruined them, changed them (and not for the better).
â€œ I need help.â€
â€œI have no patience.â€
â€œI have crippling anxiety.â€
â€œI get awful panic attacks.â€
â€œI have sleep issues.â€
â€œI feel sooo old.â€
â€œI used to be energetic.â€
â€œIâ€™ve gained so much weight.â€
â€œI have brittle nails and dry hair.â€
â€œThis is so much worse than PMS.â€
â€œWho is the menopause expert?â€
â€œWill it ever stop so I can be my old self again?â€
â€œIâ€™m tearful and afraid.â€
â€œBrain fogâ€¦mood swings.. Iâ€™m worried about driving.â€
WHAT THE EXPERTS SAY
Hot Flashes: You may not be able to eliminate them, but you can get enough relief to make a difference in things like sleep and your sex drive. Milfs do as well but they know how to work it, if you’re interested Explore trending Milfs content within a few clicks. The North American Menopause Society suggests trying things like lifestyle changes, nonprescription remedies, hormone therapy (estrogen alone if youâ€™ve had your uterus removed; if not, then estrogen plus progesterone is suggested) and non-hormonal prescription drugs. Click here to read more. And here are some via The Mayo Clinic
Mental Health: Indeed, menopause can wreak havoc on your psyche, confirms the brain & spine team over at Cleveland Clinic. It may start out as sleepless nights, feeling more tired than normal and moody and short-tempered (or what I like to call â€œpricklyâ€).
Oh, I almost forgot â€“ there can also be problems with concentration and memory.
So many women go on to experience anxiety and/or depression, which can be especially crippling if they canâ€™t find relief. Read more about that here.
(Yes, changing estrogen levels could affect your mental state. And no, itâ€™s not all your imagination. That calls for a toast.)
WHO ELSE YOU CAN TURN TO
Many women complain that their current healthcare professionals are either poorly educated or uninterested in the subject of menopause and as a result, are ill equipped to offer helpful advice.
What to Ask When Seeking Help With Menopauseâ€¦
Are you a NCMP or NAMS Certified Menopause Practitioner? These are practitioners who are skilled at providing healthcare for women in perimenopause and beyond. The National Menopause Society has established this competency exam for all licensed healthcare providers; if they pass they are awarded with certification that they have expertise in the field.
Having personally been privy to a host of these discomforts, Iâ€™ll add my two cents. I MADE IT OUT ALIVE!
Since Iâ€™m a breast cancer survivor, taking hormones was a no-no. Fluoxetine, prescribed by my GYN, helped with my irritability. My hot flashes gradually subsided after about
I-donâ€™t-want-to-tell-you how-many seven years.
My Non-Drug Drug of Choice
Exercise. Yeah, I know, I think it can cure all ills. Well, not all, but many.
Whether it truly helped with my menopausal symptoms or just took my mind off them matters not. And it’s good for things that this so-called midlife puts you more at risk for, like osteoporosis, diabetes, heart disease, weakening bones, insomnia. Think I’m wrong? Just look at this study published in Archives of Internal Medicine. Even if you never exercised before, it’s not too late: being fit in middle may make you a healthier older adult.
And who doesn’t want that?