It wasn't always like this. The seasons would be separated into winter and summer. Winter meant black and brown. Summer meant white and tan. Life was fairly simple. And there were just a few handbags in my closet. But then, one day, that all changed. I began to look at handbags with a different eye. They suddenly changed from boring necessities to exciting accessories. I drooled … [Read more...] about How I Turned Into a Bag Lady
It’s a Foxcroft Celebration!
I love many things about being a writer. One is that I get to work from home. In my PJs, if I wish. Devoid of makeup or even clean hair. But that's the same thing that I sometimes hate about being a writer. After all, PJs and no makeup are all well and good...until it's 3PM and I realize I haven't showered or looked in the mirror or talked to anyone in person since the night before, when I said … [Read more...] about It’s a Foxcroft Celebration!
Never Say Never: What I Learned From My High School Reunion.
Part Deux. You've probably figured it out by now that I went to the big reunion. I'll admit: it was tough to come to that decision. I ruminated for months. And then, naturally, I stressed out about what to pack. (But that's nothing new...I ALWAYS stress out about packing). One thing I knew for sure: I was packing my highest heels. I was so over my height issues - although I'll always remember … [Read more...] about Never Say Never: What I Learned From My High School Reunion.
I’m Never Going to My High School Reunion, I Said. Never.
PART ONE. Just last summer, I was shocked into the harsh reality of realizing just how quickly time passes. I received an invitation to my 40th high school reunion. How could it be? Was it really that long ago that I was that skinny, self-conscious girl with the tight unwrinkled skin and healthy hair-that-had-never-seen-chemicals? The one who never thought she'd be looking back years later and … [Read more...] about I’m Never Going to My High School Reunion, I Said. Never.
The Case of the Missing Mojo
My mojo has left me. I'm not sure what I did to offend it. I'm searching for answers. I wonder if this is why... Last week, I took a little time off. My BFF came all the way from California to visit. We hadn't seen one another since January, and I was guilty of being just a wee bit excited. Much more than a wee bit, if you really want to know. The day before Ellen arrived, I sat down at my … [Read more...] about The Case of the Missing Mojo
Do You Ever Act Outside Your Comfort Zone?
Perhaps I was a boy scout in a former life. I doubt it, though, since I quit Brownies after the very first meeting. I guess it comes down to the fact that I am not a so-called "group" person...but somehow, somewhere the "be prepared" motto got drilled into my being. Blame my own mother neuroses. I'm always the one schlepping my sweater to the movies in the summer "just in case" the air … [Read more...] about Do You Ever Act Outside Your Comfort Zone?
Dealing with Hot Flashes in the Heat
Now that the heat of the summer is engulfing many parts of the country, it's not as easy to find immediate relief from those hormonal waves of sweat. And hot weather is a big hot flash trigger. Many of course look into getting an air conditioning sydney company to fit their house with much-needed temperature control and prevent the heat from getting to them. But when one is out for fun or for work … [Read more...] about Dealing with Hot Flashes in the Heat
Calendars and Time: A Short Meditation
I have one of those daily tear-off daily calendars in my office. I'm pretty good about ripping off a page each morning, cup of coffee in hand; my calendar is from The New Yorker, and each day features another fun cartoon, some which make me giggle and some which make me wonder why I can't be so irreverent/clever/witty. (Aside from that, it's usually the only way I know what day it is.) But I … [Read more...] about Calendars and Time: A Short Meditation
Saying Goodbye to All That
There are two different schools of thought regarding so-called aging. Those who say they hate it... they're also fond of saying things like: Aging is not for sissies Aging out-and-out sucks Aging is tough Aging is a @^*!% struggle. And then there are those who: Embrace Aging Celebrate Aging Recite a prayer of thanks each morning they wake up Show off Aging Say Aging beats … [Read more...] about Saying Goodbye to All That
Do You Embrace Change?
I always thought I did. I was fond of saying things like: I need a change Life's more fun when you have new things happening all the time Things get so boring when they remain stagnant And I happen to think that over the years, I've embraced typical so-called changes pretty well. The empty nest? An opportunity for me and my husband to catch up with one another; as well as a natural … [Read more...] about Do You Embrace Change?